Subject: My ex-husband wants me to be his side chick
Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for almost 15 years and my husband cheated on me several times. He eventually got tired of hurting me, or so he said, and he divorced me. I was depressed at first but in the past two years, I’ve started getting my mojo back and although I’m not dating, I want desperately to have sex. I’ve been able to forgive my ex-husband and that’s how I know I’m in a better place mentally and emotionally. We didn’t have children together, but I am very close to his teenage daughter. She lives with her mom but she spends some weekends with me. The last time she spent the night with me, her father popped up and asked if we could all have a movie night, just like old times. I couldn’t say no because she was glad to see her daddy. Halfway through the movie, she fell asleep on the couch and he made her go to bed. I started to clean up, hoping he’d leave, but he didn’t. He started to beg and plead for one more night with me. He said he craves my body and he just wanted to spoon with me all night. He is by far the best lover I’ve ever had, but I couldn’t let him know how badly I wanted to make love to him. It would just make me miserable all over again because I’d be his side piece. I told him to go home to his fiancé. This will be his third wife and he’s already out trying to cheat. Since that night, he’s been begging me to let him spend time with me. I told him there’s no way in hell I’d ever be his side piece. He swore he’d leave his fiancé if I’d let him hold me for one more night. I will admit that I am enjoying all of the attention from him and I want to believe that he truly misses me and he’s ready to come home. Is that what it is, or does he just want to have sex?