Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a man that I met online, and I'm amazed by all of his personalities. He's fun, loving, and easy to get along with one day, and the next day he's acting like the CEO of a major corporation. In real life, he's a chief operating officer, not a CEO. He's responsible for a lot of people at work, and he said that he is always stressed. When he's stressed, he whines and needs everything done for him. I even removed his shoes and rubbed his feet when it should be the other way around.
Last weekend, I discovered another personality, and that one loves to brag and lie. We were with some of his friends, and they've known him longer than I have, so I'm sure they knew he was lying, but nobody would stop him. He said he was buying a boat so we could sail away on our honeymoon. He hasn't even talked to me about proposing, but he told the group that he's been looking for rings. I just sat there, confused, and then I noticed he was drinking tequila.
He and I usually don't drink. We prefer to smoke weed before we go out, so we're in a chilled mood. The tequila introduced the new character, and I saw it again a few days ago.
He came over and it was late. He walked in my bedroom with nothing on but his socks and dove into the bed. This wild man managed to pull the sheets off the bed, and he made me sweat all of my curls out. It was the best sexual experience we've ever had. I blame it on the tequila.
I told him he needs to get his personalities in check, and he laughed. I was not joking. I love the tequila sex, and I wish I could take pieces from each personality to make an ideal man. How do I deal with him?